How To Be Fearless!
WARNING! Longer but hugely beneficial rant of an opening. Eye opening. But if you just need the tips on how to be fearless, shoot down a few paragraphs!)
It is said that everything you have every wanted is on the other side of fear. This is pretty damn true. I mean think about it. Everything in life that has every been meaningful to us has had an element of fear in the way of our attainment of it. If it didn’t, well then your a psychopath. LOL just kidding.
But for real, fear is the key that unlocks anything and everything that will make an impact on our life. Scared to ask a girl out? Don’t do it and you may have just lost a chance at falling in love with your soul mate. Do so and you entangle your existence with a match made in heaven.
Say yes to bungee jumping and break through a massive fear that only helps you conquer more fears. Or cower at the idea of plummeting off a fixed structure. And live the rest of your life in fear of getting out of your comfort zone.
There is two sides of the coin to fear. Just like there is with everything in life. One side holds the key to us unlocking the secrets to this life. Tapping our full potential. Laughing in the face of what most people would not even dare to do. And gaining a level of self confidence so high that you will literally say yes to any opportunity. And the more opportunity we say yes to, the more happy, successful and fulfilled we become.
It is a life lived with passion and energy. With a feeling of optimism and hope. A feeling that we are the masters of our fate. The captains of our soul. And the leader or our existence. We naturally have better people and situations attracted into our lives. Because of this, we lived more fulfilled lives.
We attract abundance into our lives in all sense of the word. We fulfill our purpose of being on this earth. And maybe, just maybe, we surpass the potential that even God himself thought that we could become. We shock the world with who we are and how we transform fear into courage.
The other side of this coin is shows the face that no one wants to see. It is the bully we hate that we have submitted to so many times. That presence that kills so many dreams if we let it. And if we continue to live a life playing off of this side of the coin, it leads to an early death. Not physically, but spiritually. They may as well throw dirt on us right NOW if we are living our lives playing this side of the coin.
It is a life filled with regret. Regret that may get so bad that we suppress all of our toxic emotions. Emotions that grow and fester. As they are not conducive to our unlimited and infinite essence that courses through our veins. This results in diseases and mental disorders. That come from a life filled with lack of direction and small and meaningless goals. Or no goals at all.
It is a life where we are literally wasting space and oxygen on this earth. A life that inspires no hope and courage. This type of person walks around like a zombie. Waiting to get to the end of the day, the end of the month, and the end of the year. Like life is some sort of task we must get through in order to get to our death.
This is the person that has no life in their face. The youthful exuberance is something they haven’t felt in decades. And becomes so foreign to them, that they find themselves living in a state of apathy, depression and numbness.
This is what can happen if you don’t face your fears. If you listen to the critics outside of you. And the one inside of you. The “voices of reason” telling you not to do something because you may be embarrassed. Or you may fail. Or that your friends or family won’t support it.
So you play it safe. You make sure you don’t make any waves. That you fit in the box. That you aren’t too loud or to obnoxious or too aggressive. You are prim and proper. Just as the system wants us to be. Never too powerful. Existing. NOT LIVING.
Now I know this is a bleak and depressing image. And I am glad you think that. I am trying to paint you a picture of polarities. What your life can look like if you take the blue or red pill essentially.
The fork in the road is now. If you choose to take the path of facing and obliterating your fears, you will truly live life. You will become, in a sense, a supreme being among human kind. You will have a passion and energy that flows through you. You will make an impact on this world so great, that it will be a better place because of you when you leave.
If you take the other path. The path of least resistance if you will. You will find yourself dying a little more inside each day. A living corpse in a sense. Just doing your time. Day in and day out. The same routine. The same negative and limiting thoughts. The same crap friends. The same feelings of suffocation. Life suffocation. But the person inflicting this suffocation is yourself.
I want to encourage you to embrace the path of MOST resistance. Do what is hard. Do what you fear, and the fear of death is certain. We are all engineered for success. But we have been programmed for failure in a sense.
We are set up in a school system that punishes failure. So we let the fear of failure overtake us in our lives. We don’t try new things. We become filled with fear of failure. We are in a sense, still stuck in the school system. To where we think that if we fail, we won’t graduate. Yet our graduation now is graduating to the next stage of happiness and success.
Either we are stuck in the school of limiting thought and limiting existence. Or we graduate to go onto a school where we learn to really live and attain true mastery of our existence.
This all starts with doing the things we are scared to do. It really does. This is your life. And it is serious business. Living life is serious as all hell my friends. It needs not be taken likely. WE ARE DYING. Every single day is one day we have less. I want to be the one to tell you this because someone needs to do so.
When we internalize this every single day, we wake up and know that we are running out of oxygen in a sense. That we need to make good use of our limited time. And we do so my embracing fear. Learning to love it. And actually seeking it out. Getting out of the comfort zone. Constantly. Otherwise we will live a life full of regret.
And we don’t want to be that person who is on their deathbed. Longing for more time, for a do over. But life isn’t a video game. There are no do overs. This is the real deal. This is your time. Your time to shine. Or your time to hide and play small. The choice is yours.
I hope you choose wisely. I know you have greatness in you. I KNOW THIS. I don’t think this my friends. If I am the first person to tell you this, or simply just someone reminding you of this fact. Either way, know this. Internalize this and live this. Because it is the TRUTH.
I hope this rant helped you see fear in a new light. That it is life or death of how you to choose to approach your fears. Conquer them. Don’t let them conquer you. Do so and you will never have regrets my friends. And a life with no regrets is my main goal. The smaller amount of regrets you have, the more you lived life. And life is meant to be lived. Not regretted.
How To Be Fearless
What Is The Benefit Of Your Fear?
When it comes down to it, we need to question our fears. First off, it is validating them as real. They say that FEAR is False Evidence Appearing Real. This is BS my friends. It is real as hell. If it wasn’t, there wouldn’t be so many people crippled by it. There would be breakthrough after breakthrough. Success and happiness would flow everywhere.
But it is real. And it is a true and real emotion that can be weighed. It is as chemical release in the body. We need to validate our fears. Own them. So we can break through them. We give them life this way of course. But we can kill them off because of it as well. We put them in the grave by acting on these fears. Questioning what the benefits are of not doing the things we fear.
If, at the end of the day, we aren’t going to die, then there is no benefit in not facing the fear. Sure it is going to be unpleasant and awkward. But what happens is that you will start to be conscious of the role fear is playing. You will see how silly it is. And how it is making you react.
The natural reaction is to stuff our fears. To not face them. But what we resist, persists. But what we face, dissipates. Analyze your fears. Look at them instead of them looking at you. A big shift in mindset.
All of us have had times where we are moving forward. Getting momentum but then feel fear. And we retreat. Maybe it is in a conversation in which you stumble over your words. And then shut down. Not anymore. Now you keep going. You recover, even if you stutter through your next couple sentences. You break through and get to the other side. You will look more powerful and feel more powerful because of it. Hence becoming more fearless, with the help of fear! How ironic.
Get A Mentor And Support Group
Mentors and support groups have a sense of easing our fears for the a couple reasons. First off, if you are simply working with one mentor, then they have been there or done that. If they haven’t, then they are not a mentor neither a leader. In which case, move onto the next one.
They can be your rod and staff essentially when times get tough or you don’t now what to do moving forward. Lack of knowledge can simply be why we are scared most of the time. We don’t feel like we know enough to move forward. We feel as if we aren’t an expert so who would listen to us, or why would anyone buy from us?
But having someone that can give you a guide book essentially, can help you become more fearless in your life.
Also, having a group of people you meet with often. Of whom you talk about your goals with. Of people you can be raw and real with. This is a group where you do just that. If it becomes a place where time is wasted talking about irrelevant matters, then it is time to find new group.
Find a group of people where you talk about your goals with. A group of you and at at least one other person. Where you are both pushing each others. Better in some regards and worse than others. So you can balance each others growth.
This little definition of a support group in the last summary is what is referred to as a mastermind group. Which is said to virtually guarantee your success in anything you do. Including becoming more fearless. I wrote an article on for you on what it is and how to find one, which you can check it out here!
Focus Your Life On Growth
When it comes down to it, if you see EVERY thing you do in this life as some sort of growing experience, then you can never really be scared. Because essentially, the only fear we really have in our bodies are the fear of falling and the fear of loud noises. These are the fears we were birthed with.
THAT IS IT! The other fears are learned fears. Including the fear of failure. So seeing fear in this light and the lie that it is, we can start moving forward with better tactics to eliminate it. So say you are scared to go into a cold call or ask out a person.
It goes horribly in anyone’s standards. Well, you have two choices, you let fear overtake you and never go after these things again with as much gusto. Or you ask yourself “What can I learn from it”. This will give you answers.
Because when we look for answers we find them. Look long enough and you will find answers. So when you do identify the one or more things you can get better with, you do just that.
Get better at them just by the mere fact of recognizing them. Then next time you are in the same scenario, you will be that more more courageous. Which courage is simply acting in spite of fear. But your levels of fear will be that much higher. And your confidence will be that much better.
Keep doing that and you will hone your approach to anything. And lose most of the fear if not all of it you have around certain things you are scared about.
Don’t Fear Fear (Hear me out)
This may sound like a fat paradox, but when it comes down to it, like Franklin D. Roosevelt said:
“The only thing to fear is fear itself.”
We aren’t really fearful of anything until we feel the fearful feeling. Which in essence is just internal energy. Literally just that MOLECULES in your body that are trapped. If you see it as that, it is almost funny. These molecules are so damn small that it would you can barely see them as a dot on your pinkie finger.
So when we build up the habit of not fearing fear, then what else is there to fear? I am essentially saying, feel the fear and do it anyways.
Don’t be scared just because your body and mind tells you to do so. You don’t have to listen to anything and everything your mind tells you. Just because it is your voice, doesn’t mean it is telling the truth.
Most of the time fear is simply a response to how our brains evolved from over 2 million years. To fear things that actually NEEDED TO BE FEARFUL. Like being chased by a wild animal, because back then we were just as victim to becoming prey as anything else.
So once we do the things we fear, the death of fear is certain. That is just how we become fearless. We DO the things we fear. If not, we are absolutely screwed.
Like I talked about above, these fear molecules are small. Very small. But the more we don’t face our fears,the more these things build up and actually feel and become bigger. Which the bigger they become, the stronger effect they have on us.
That is why people often hear the term, “crippled by fear.” This is because they have let some environmental stimulus build up over and over and over until they can’t function properly anymore when it comes up in their life.
Be Cool With Looking Like A Jackass
When it comes down to it, we fear looking like an idiot in front of people. In front of people who are just as worried about looking like an idiot. We are all the same in the sense of where we are just big kids who are afraid of the first day of school. Of wanting to look cool and competent and perfect.
When it comes down to it, to become fearless, we need to be totally OK with egg on our face essentially. Being OK with looking like a meatball. I mean look at people who truly aren’t afraid of people laughing at them.
They almost get off on it! They laugh when people laugh. This is because they are so OK with being laughed at and being different they they obtain joy over it. Not feelings of fear and embarrassment.
So do me a favor on your journey to becoming fearless. Don’t be afraid to stand out. To be the person in the group who expresses themselves in a way that is less conservative.
I am not saying being the funny guy or gal. But be a FUN person. Take your life serious, but don’t let it become to serious to where you let fear stop you from being laughed at.
Because at the end of the day, people that do laugh at you are more scared than you. Because they aren’t even the ones that are OK with themselves enough to even have the courage to be laughed at and different.
Write Down Your Fears
Writing out your fears does a great thing for us because it lets us see our fears. Our fears are usually looking at us. Sort of like a creepy person out in public that we keep seeing and losing track of. We know hes looking and being super weird. He is evading us for a short minute then gone the next. We never really see him in full light because he is so good at staying in the dark. But effecting how creeped out we feel even more so because we don’t see him fully.
Well the same is true about our fears. We know that we get scared. And we know to an extent what they are. But we suppress them so much that we never can truly look them square in the face.
We can do this by looking at our fears and then either letting them go, or simply laughing at them. Do a big belly laugh directly to the feeling of fear. Remember fear is just a small molecule in your body that can dissipate under the right circumstances. The right circumstances being that we let it go or laugh at it. If you need more help with this, I wrote an article JUST FOR YOU. Check it out right here!
How To Let Go And Move On From ANYTHING (3 Simple Tips)
Visualize The Fearless You
Now I know that visualization has got a bad name throughout the years. Because of things like the law of attraction. You can think your way to riches! Well there is a basis for that. How we think absolutely determines and dictates our lives. How we think dictates how we act. And how we act determines the results we get. So in essence we are the masters of our own life. Whether we like it or not. So embracing this fact alone can help you become fearless.
But when it comes down to it, we can use this power to help us eliminate fear from our lives a lot more. Whatever you are fearful of, it heavily has to do with the fact that we have created mental images of us not being fearless in that scenario or scenarios similar.
So when it comes down to it, if we can start creating mental images of us being relaxed, calm, cool and fearless, we can act more that way.
I know like this seems a little new age. But it WORKS my friends. Try doing so. And then let me know how it works out for you!
Do this in ANY situation you are in a state of fear in.
If you need some good tips on how to visualize, be sure to check out this post I wrote just for you here:
How to Visualize (Visualization Mastery)
Commit To A Fearless State
The states we are in are heavily reliant to what what we give priority to. You see this often times with people who are in a victim state. Now I am just saying STATE. I am not saying they are victims.
But they have given priority to living in that state. They are getting something from being a victim. That the THINK is going to benefit them more than being in a more beautiful state. Maybe it is other people in a victim state who encourage this person to be in a victim state. So hence they repeat this vicious cycle.
Well if you really want to be more fearless, I want you to embrace the fearless state. Give priority to it instead of being fearful. Again being in fear is a 2 million year old conditioned response.
So at the end of the day, we have essentially conditioned ourselves to be fearful. But if we start committing to a state of fearlessness, choosing to be in a STATE of fearlessness, we can convince our minds and our internal being that we are more committed to living in a fearless state. And naturally we will act in a more fearless way.
Adhere To The Law Of Cause And Effect
Brian Tracy talks about his law in his book Power of Self Confidence in which he speaks about how if we want high self confidence, all we need to do is engage in the acts of high self confidence. And naturally we will become so. As you think and act, so are you.
If we can seek out and find what fearless people are doing, and do those things, we will become fearless. We will eventually get the same results. Feel the same way. Act the same way.
What are some people in your life that you see as completely fearless. Study them. Act like them. And think like them. Interview them if you can. Or if you can’t, then watch interviews with them. Read their books. Become a student in which they are your favorite teacher.
Train Your Mind
Did you know that mental capabilities can be developed just like physical ones? Just as one who has no running experience but has a desire to do a half marathon can develop into one who can complete this. They just have to commit to disciplined training. So can you develop your mental capbilities to make yourself more fearless and fear free.
Essentially life is a mental marathon. Which the level of work you put in, will directly correlate to what you get out of it. That is why it is imperative to feed your mind with things that make you more fearless.
For me, personal growth and development has made me more fearless. I can say that with absolute certainty. So I can only speak on this subject of learning that makes you more fearless. So I suggest that you ALWAYS and everyday listen or read to something positive.
For me I have it on when I am cooking, working out, or even working on personaldevelopfit.com if I am not trying to focus insanely hard on a topic I am doing more research with.
I promise you that the more I do this, the more I LITERALLY feel my mind expanding. A limited mind, gives you limited results. A limited existence.
When you put positive things into your mind, you grow as a person. The only thing that doesn’t grow is your fear. It is stamped out by states of courage. They are fleeting and temporary at first.
Then they start to dominate certain and specific scenarios. Then something beautiful happens. They permeate all ares of your existence. You wake up one day and feel good about your life wherever you go.
This will give you direction for your life. And direction is what it takes to live a life of meaning. And when you are pursuing meaning in your life, you are naturally more fearless. Because your goals or bigger than your fears.
Have Goals Bigger Than Your Fears
I know I just said this right above, but it needs to be a topic of its own with it’s own heading. Having fears being bigger than your goals results in you submitting to fears. And when one submits to something, that something becomes the master. And you become the slave.
We have all been there. And the more we submitted, the tighter we clasp the shackles. Breaking free of those shackles can be done by having goals bigger than our fears. That inspire us to not give a crap about fears. Essentially, we need to have goals in which we are scared NOT to go after them. That is when, by my own definition, we become truly fearless.
We are not using fear as our slave. We are making it do work for us. We are using it to push us towards our goals. and not away from them.
If you want some help sculpting captivating goals, ones that will bleed the fear right out of you, check this post out here that I wrote just for you!
How To Set And Accomplish Any Goal
Struggle Through Life Challenges and Road To Goals
When we retreat, we build up a high level of fear. We live in a state of submission. But the more you push through towards your goals. Fight, claw and scratch. And then attain that goal, the higher your self confidence soars. And fear and self confidence go hand in hand. The lower your self confidence is, the higher your level of fear is.
So keep going. Do whatever it takes to accomplish your goals and dreams. Even if you fumble and fall. Like Les Brown says:
“If you fall, try and land on your back, because if you can look up, you can get up!”
Fall, but still look forward. Get up and get back after it until you win!
Put Your Fears In Perspective (Pros and Cons)
Often times if we look at our fears like I suggested we should do above, we can see how silly the root fear is. But seeing the root fear means tracing back where the roots grow to. So for example you are scared to join a gym. You think people will judge you for being overweight. You are scared people will laugh at you if you do the technique wrong. You are scared that you will get injured. Well yes these are legitimate fears. But are they really THAT bad?
If you need to, go deeper with each fear. The simple fact of analyzing them will help you break them up a bit. Then you can weigh out whether the fear means more to you than actually do the action. So should the fear of being laughed at, at first, keep you from joining the gym membership. Getting the body you want. And being self confident in it? Which will lead to you feeling more sexy. Approaching the opposite sex better. Or having a better sex life with your spouse. Or living with a vitality that you had when you were a teenager?
In my humble opinion, not even nearly close. This will help you act on your fears and then of course actions leads to conquering the thing we fear. Making you that much more fearless in your life.
Only Thing To Fear Is Regret
Like I stated above about Franklin D. Roosevelt, the only thing to fear is fear itself. Well in a sense I agree. But the one thing that we should only ultimately be afraid of is regret. And regrets build the more we don’t face our fears. Think about the last time you didn’t do something you were scared to do. And now the opportunity is gone and you may never get another shot.
This should scare the living hell out of you. I does for me! The main thing to do is fear having regrets. Sure you may be more safe and secure and feel safe if you don’t act on your fears. But would you rather feel safe and LIVE with your regrets. Or live being in states of sporadic fear and break through them and no have any regrets? The question is yours to answer.
Realize How Little Percentage Of Fears Have Came True
When it comes down to it, most of everything we ever fear that is going to happen, doesn’t. I mean lets get real. We have all, probably countless times, done something we feared. And even if we don’t get the desired outcome, it wasn’t nearly as bad as we thought.
Question your fears. Ask yourself if it is really going to come true. Like really, what is the probability of the worst case scenario really happening? NOT GOOD!
This fact alone, internalizing this, will help you become more fearless. And move thorough life with a state of courage that is literally unshakable.
See Your Thoughts as JUST THOUGHTS
At the end of the day, all fear is based only in one place, in our mind. It is a product of our thoughts. Which at the day, are our thoughts. It may not seem like this. But seeing your thoughts as being yours puts you back into control. It shows you that YOU are the master. They are not the master.
Often times, simply from not taming the mind when it gets out of control, it starts to feel like we are it’s master. We let the mind take over too long, and that is when we do things we regret. We drop into states of uneasiness. Experience unpleasant moods.
But taking back control is done by seeing that you are the master of your thoughts. That you can simply watch them go by. Let them go. They are JUST THOUGHTS.
They again, create a chemical reaction in our bodies, in which we feel that the thing we fear is actually happening. But its not! It is just a thought and a feeling coexisting. Causing us feelings of distress.
But once you start seeing your thoughts objectively, and not getting to attached to them. Seeing them, in your minds eye, float by. You will feel detached from the thought. Which is the great secret. The thought ISN’T you.
Without getting to deep into it, we are all attached to infinite intelligence. Every thought ever is in this infinite intelligence. These thoughts are millions of years old. People have thought these thoughts and had these fears for millions of years.
But we are simply borrowing these thoughts form the infinite intelligence temporarily. Which means, since they are not us, like a body part, we can let them go. I can show you exactly how to do so right here if you are interested!
Lets be honest when we are rewarded, we do that behavior more, right?! It really comes down to the fact that we are all like grown up children. We don’t really change much in that aspect. We are still sensitive little beings playing as big bad adults! But when we were rewarded as children, it felt good. And we kept doing that action more and more.
Train yourself to do more fearless things by celebrating small and big breakthroughs. Take yourself out. Go get a big pizza (only if you haven’t ate bad the last few days!) Hell, even if it is a big fear, go on a mini vacation! Reward yourself. It will feel good.
Due to the fact that fear is mind based, I need to talk about meditation. I have been meditating for nearly 4 years now, and it has helped me become more fearless. Due to the fact that it helps me manage my thoughts. It helps me move on from states of fear. Not stay in them. Because I can look at fear more objectively. It is almost as if I can detach myself from thoughts. Seeing them as NOT ME.
This is only one of the benefits of mediation. Being that this is a personal development and fitness blog, I want to be the one to highly advocate meditation. It is something that can be done no matter what religion you practice! To learn how to meditate, and the benefits of meditation, check out the links below!
How To Meditate (The Ultimate Beginners Guide)
45 Powerful Benefits of Meditation
See Failure As Feedback
When it comes down to it, failure gains its power from how much meaning we give it. If we see it as the end all be all, then this is all bad. Next time a similar scenario comes into our existence, similar to a time we “failed”, we are going to bail. But if you see all your failures as simply feedback. Ways that you can do better next time, well then there is nothing to ever fear!
Here is an article more in depth on this subject if you need help seeing failure as feedback!
What Is Fear? The Uncensored Explanation
And some fear quotes that will help you become more fearless!
Expect Good Things To Happen!
We are all programmed to expect the worst. But what if we allowed ourselves to simply expect the best case scenarios to happen? This would eliminate a lot of our fears very quickly! Try it for a day and see how your life will be transformed.
Smile When You Are Scared
When it comes down to it, when we are scared, we tense up. We lock our jaw and our traps raise. Next time you are becoming fearful, simply smile. Even laugh. This will ease the tension and dissipate the fear.
Trust Your Abilities
At the end of the day, you have done countless good things in your life. You have a brain so developed that genius resides in it. And you are most likely a darn good person! Trust yourself to execute. KNOW that you have what it takes to get what you want in this life. That you have the ability to transcend fear and become fearless!
Manage Your Physiology
Tony Robbins talks a lot about managing your physiology. It is the quickest way to create change in your feelings. This is when you manage your body and how you are holding your posture.
Any feeling you have ever had has came from the way you use your physical body. If you are not feeling fearless, you don’t need to pump yourself up or MAKE yourself get into a fearless state.
He talks about going from fear into power.
21 Fearless Quotes
“We grow fearless by walking into our fears.” – Robin Sharma
“Be fearless in the pursuit of what sets your soul on fire!”
“She slept with wolves without fear, for the wolves knew a lion was among them.” – R.M. Drake
“The only limit is you, be brave, be fearless.”
“Be thankful for what you have, be fearless for what you want.” – Coco Calla
“Let us not pray to be sheltered from dangers, but to be fearless when facing them.” – Rabindranth Tagore
“Once you become fearless, life becomes limitless.”
“Be fearless when it comes to life and careless when it comes to what people may think or say about you.”
“Being fearless precisely when you are most scared is the best hack.”
“I am strong because I’ve been weak. I am fearless because I’ve been afraid. I am wise because I’ve been foolish.”
“The phrase “do not be afraid” is written in the Bible 365 times. That’s a daily reminder from God to live every day being fearless.”
“To me, fearless is not the absence of fear. It’s not being completely unafraid. To me, fearless is having fears. Fearless is having doubts. Lots of them. To me, fearless is living in spite of those things that scare you to death.”
“Be fearless, be brave, be bold, love yourself.” – Haruki Murakami
“I am fearless.” – Conor McGregor
“Make your vision so clear that your fears become irrelevant.”
“Be fearless. If you make only one resolution this year, let it be to live boldly. You control this moment. Rather than cautiously test the water, dive straight into life with freeing abandon. Imagine the person you want to be and the life you want to live, then simply commit to them. Believe in yourself. Embrace you beauty. Discover a new passion. And whatever you do, wherever you go, don’t be afraid to make a splash.”
“Without God I am hopeless, with God I am fearless.”
‘Fate loves the fearless.” – James Russell Lowell
“Becoming fearless isn’t the point. That’s impossible. It’s learning how to control your fear. And how to be free from it.”
“Being great starts by being fearless. Fearless starts by having faith. Having faith starts by letting go. It’s hard but not impossible.”
“Be fearless. Have the courage to take risks. Go where there are no gaurantees. Get out of your comfort zone even if it means being uncomfortable. The road less traveled is sometimes fraught with barricades, bumps and uncharted terrain. But it is on that road where your character is truly tested. And have the courage to accept that you’re not perfect, nothing is and no one is and that’s OK.” –
Conclusion to Become Fearless
Be your own star of your movie. Be the person that wakes up and decides that this is bullshit. That you are done running from fears. That you are the superhero that conquers their fears.
And only becomes stronger and more powerful because of it. See your life as an evolving script. To where you are writing your own triumphant ending. With smaller endings along the way.
All of which end with you conquering little fears. Giving you the courage to conquer bigger fears. Then bigger fears. Until eventually, you become almost immune to fear. You BECOME TRULY FEARLESS. The ultimate transcendence!
Remember too, that becoming fearless comes down to managing your state. That is my favorite tip of this article. COMMIT to managing yours fears. To squash them before they get to big. Commit to a fearless state. Remember, where your focus goes, energy flows.
So if you are in a fearful state, and you don’t consciously get yourself out of it, your energy will continue to flow in a fearful direction. So commit to a fearless and courageous state.
Share with me what your favorite tip was. And a time where you broke through a big fear. When you felt the fear and did it anyways!
Much love friends,
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